Original message:
Hi my husband passed away on the 5th January this year I feel so guilty and blame myself I don't know what to do and just need to know why it happened as it was sudden I can't get over the fact he died without me being there he had a nurse with him but it should have been me
Wellbeing Team

We are very sorry for your loss, loosing somebody you love can be very confusing at times and you may be experiencing all sorts of emotions. This can be different for everybody, it can also be normal to feel things more intensely than we'd expect when they are recent.
If you would like to speak to somebody about how you are feeling an appointment with one of our trained wellbeing practitioners may help, they would be able to listen to your experiences and offer you a variety of options to support you at this difficult time.

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